Are you and your partner having trouble reaching the O-Town together? If so, don’t just depend on your sexual organs alone! Sex is a deeper form of communication, especially between two romantically involved people. Thus, the best remedy to your unsynchronized climaxing is to use your five sense organs and take lovemaking to a whole new plane of pleasure.
Using your five senses actually helps you achieve more mind-blowing orgasms and get to know your partner’s body better. Each of these receptors in your body requires the right cues for effective stimulation.
When it comes to sexual cues, eye contact pretty much initiates the spark. A certain shade of color, a brief exchange of lingering glances, or feasting your eyes on an erotic film can instantly set the mood for you and your partner.
Surely, you cannot just limit the beautiful windows to your soul to merely staring into each other’s eyes. You can also increase visual appeal for sex through enhancing certain aspects of your environment. Try dimming the lights in your room with candles, or throw in some red rose petals on the floor of your room and on your bed. It’s been said that the color red elicits a seductive vibe.
If you are pining for something more daring, try using a mirror and watch the two of you as you make love. It will be like watching a live porno, only you and your partner are the stars of the show.
Aside from that, watching adult films together may also help double your libido. You can also leave the lights on as it allows you to see each other’s naked body fully.
Contrary to what the majority believes, drowning yourself with excessive perfume is rather appalling than captivating. There are certain scents that don’t jive well with your body’s natural oils. Likewise, some individuals have noses that are more sensitive than usual to strong types of colognes.
The better alternative is to go au natural. Biologically speaking, humans emit a chemical substance called pheromones. It is this natural scent that attracts us to the opposite sex, and sweating is one of the body’s methods of secreting pheromones. So, before you pick up that fancy bottle of perfume, switch your routine a bit and invite your beloved to jog around or work out a little before you have your sack sessions.
Among other natural scents that are sensually enticing to the olfactory nerves include black licorice, cinnamon, jasmine, lavender, menthol, sandalwood, and vanilla. To introduce these inviting scents in the bedroom, light some aromatic candles and incense, or soak your aroused bodies in a nice scented bubble bath.
By simply complimenting each other’s bodies and openly expressing some moves that you would want to try with your beloved in bed, you have already used your sense of hearing to hit the right erotic switches. Indeed, the fervent exchange of intoxicating moans and deep grunts can be enough to elicit higher levels of libido, but have you experienced the difference of creating your own personalized and intimate playlist?
Sexy music with slow and sensual beats along with soothing binaural sounds create the perfect mood for carnal desires. Songs that are too upbeat have the tendency to deviate attention away from building sexual tension. Even reggae music with mellow rhythm is said to match your lovemaking pace almost exquisitely.
Women have been found to have more refined taste buds than men. (Perhaps it’s time for the gentlemen to unleash their hidden cooking skills!) There is a long list of aphrodisiacs to choose from, and this includes:
- Chai Tea
- Hot Chili
Otherwise, open a bottle of your favorite wine then spread a generous amount of whipped cream on your lover’s erogenous spots before vigorously teasing it with your tongue. Don’t want to bring food in the bed? Flavored condoms can still make lovemaking more thrilling and heighten the sensations on your tongue.
Even better, guys can also use their tongue to stimulate their partner’s pleasure zones. Specifically, brushing the clitoris with their tongue on the 10 and 2 o’clock spots before lapping the hood with more force will elicit waves of intense amorous sensation.
The body parts that are most sensitive to sensual touch include the back of the ear, breasts (for women), inner thighs, neck, torso, and genitals. However, you can still make other parts of your body more sensitive to sexual stimulation by associating it with eroticism. During sexual intercourse, take the time to explore each other’s pleasure regions. Usually, soft and slow rubbing or curvy, lingering strokes feel like magic on the skin. Foot massages warm the feet up instantly while relaxing and putting your partner in the mood as well, but it pays to determine the type of touch and pressure that works best for your beloved.
On the other hand, switching your sheets with velvet and silk materials is a huge plus as these increase comfort and satisfaction against your body’s superficial sense. Sex toys and vibrators enhance feelings of excitement, which likewise leads your orgasmic symphonies to an advantage. Another surefire way to enhance how you feel each other’s erotic touches is through rolling an ice cube along your partner’s skin using your lips and tongue. Doing so effectively blends hot and cold sensations and instigates higher levels of climactic response.
Bonus tip: Gently massaging the right part of your girl’s spine, or the sacrum, which is the vertebrae on the small of the back, stimulates and helps your lady reach orgasm faster. This is because the sacrum contains nerves that are directly connected to the genitals.
There you have it—easy and electrifying ways that will make you darling bust each other’s love juices together and in no time!
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